Actually there are some people who are just the opposite. They hate change. They go to the same church all of their life, they live in the house they were born in andhave the same friends their whole life.

I'm not exactly like you--but I do like change. However, I have lived in the same house for fifteen years and been married to the same husband for twenty five years. I've gone to several different churches--but I'm going to try to stick with the present church.

I've discovered a certain pattern to the people I love and choose to be friends with. But my husband is quite different from those types. He is better educated, has a better job and is very stable. My friends are generally interesting and different from each other and me.

you are the way you are because that is what you know. maintaining friendships takes a lot of energy. I think you first must figure out who you are and what you want and like. Then when you have stabilized yourself you can have long term relationships. My path has been through counseling, twelve step programs and school. God also was the biggest factor in my becoming stable. I still haven't lost my curiousity or my desire to try new things, but I am not always on the move either. It's a hard and long journey but it has been worth it for me.

fuck church. kthx

How old are you? I really need to know that to diagnose you.

You've obviously never been in love. Even though you toted that word around quite a bit. It's plainly obvious to anyone who has been in love.

If you'd been in love, you'd realize what a great emotion it is, and how it's the greatest feeling in the world. You wouldn't be afraid of it, because you would long for it.

kthx. god is gay mkay.

I know what you mean, when a friend says something to you that makes you think 'riiight'. Is it just the truth and the truth hurts, is it supposed to hurt you, or whatever was said just struck a nerve?
A friend of mine said something to me recently, and I swear, I don't know what to think, either. Was she trying to get back at me? Do I just feel guilty and she touched on it? Who knows. Either way, maybe the fact that we are questioning these comments are important.
It may take some time to figure out, though.

Nodding in approval. Your a genius!

I don't think I like this deleted fellow. Sure love is a great emotion, but you know what's a really not-so-good emotion? Losing love. Every extreme has an opposite polarity, and with something as extreme as love, Trinitie is right to fear it. But that doesn't mean that she should hesitate; fear gives one enough perspective to know how dangerous it is to do the right thing:)

~Dan

Deleted,

I'm 18, and no I have never been in love. But I have loved. Most of the stuff I write has nothing to do with romance, but everyday relationships with my family and friends. Diagnose me, I'm ready.

Dan, I love you.

Trin,
like so many other men, i think i'm in love with you... hehehe... if you're ever feeling that wanderlust, and need some new surroundings, you can come stay with me...

I grew up an Army Brat, so my family moved wherever the military sent us for the first 14 yrs of my life... then my pops went back to school and got ordained as a minister... (can you see the similarities between us yet?) this just meant more moving around...

at 18, i joined the military myself, and i've kept up the tradition. So here i am at 29, and i've never lived in one place longer than 3 years. Even in the last 2 years, i've moved around 5 times within the same city, just to keep things new... (i've lived everywhere from a singlewide trailer in the ghetto to a retired Colonel's house in the "rich" part of town)

I know all about change, and the deep seeded need for it... believe me. What i want to tell you is this. It might be next week, it might be 10 years from now, but you will find peace. I promise. It took me almost 30 years, and i still love change, and i still love the idea of picking up and leaving everything behind, but i've learned to be at peace for extended periods of time in between.

i now have a long term plan, which is to return to Michigan when i retire from the military... i'm going back to my roots where about 6 generations of my family either lived or are still living...

that's the ironic thing... you search all over the world, you live life to the fullest, you explore a million roads, and then in the end, the only place you'll want to be is back home... back to your 'roots'... in 20 years, write me back and tell me how right i was...

btw: "deleted", get an F-in life...

Hehe, thank you imajinit. That made my day. But, I think you must be a little confused. I did not grow up in Christian surroundings at all. I'm actually tired of saying this, because I feel as though I'm bragging about my bad childhood, but I did not derive my spiritual beliefs from my family. If I had.....I don't guess I would have beliefs at all.

I did not move around often because of the military, although I do recieve that question all too often. No, we moved simply because (and this is gonna sound funny), we were running from the law. Needless to say, my father wasn't the perfect personification of Christ. I do love it when you comment on my blogs though, friend, and hope you will continue follow them, as I will do you!

Trinitie

Trinitie,

as does imajinit, I do find myself deeply attracted to but anywayzz... I alwayz seem to wonder how u get so many replies im lucky to get three. well email me at cecabelle@yahoo.com

WOW. a bunch of fags who can't get pussy and surf the internet all night want to hit it. You're a regular christian celebrity idle.

ya.. erm.. they'd be better off putting their time in on persiankitty.com or thehun.net then hittin on some random fat christian girl on the internet.. but go figure.

this coming from the guy who gets drunk and pops off about pussy and blow jobs, neither of which does he know anything about...(well, he prob'ly knows about giving bj's) my bad man... you must be the stud of studs... i guess i should be following your example... no wait, you surf the internet all night looking for women... i've gotten more play than a pimple faced punk like yourself could ever dream...nice try though

it's her intellect that attracts me to her... but again, you wouldn't know anything about that would you?

go have a party with your hand, since that's the only play you can get

Imajinit, I wouldn't do that if I were you. I doubt you can match him insult for insult, and you'll only end up making yourself look like a jerk too.

~Dan

Ya. you are quite the ladies man. and so witty. Saying i suck penis. Man you're a clever one. You get pussy and you have mad good insults. I might as well hang it up. I didn't know you got so much pussy. It's one thing to get pussy, but when you say it on the internet. It makes it a FACT. It's like the holy bible.

LET IT BE KNOWN. THAT SOME RANDOM ANONYMOUS GUY ON THE INTERNET WHO HITS ON CHICKS ON THE INTERNET BECUASE THEY'RE 18 AND "SMART" GETS MORE PUSSY THEN I. THANK YOU THAT IS ALL.

HAH.

NOT ONLY DOES THE MAN WHO INSULTS ME BY SAYING I MASTERBATE. AND CAN'T GET PUSSY. AND GETS MORE PLAY THEN A PIMPLY FACED PUNK LIKE ME..

also a self proclaimed psychologist. Wow. So you've been through years of schooling, you're a "right brain kind of guy" and you're still arguing with "pimple faced punks" on the internet. You're my hero.

Fuck all the bull shit. can i move to wherever you live, and you take me out and show me what it truely means to be cool and get pussy. You Air Force commando you.